State Cup Semifinal vs Northern Lights

Our semifinal State Cup game against the wild card winner, Northern Lights.
I came into the game a little nervous. We were playing well. Very well. But I had no idea what to expect from NL. I had seen them play a few minutes against Wayzata, then another few minutes against Wings earlier in the tournament, but didn't get much from the games. They had some athletic girls but were no match for us technically. However, a less technical team could find a way to bunker in and make scoring difficult for us. 0-0 into PKs and anything could happen.
Sunny but Chill May morning in Coon Rapids. I arrived early so that I could grab the side of the touchline that had small bleachers. For us shorter guys on a field with a big crown, I preferred to be elevated during the game if I could. Hannah was there early as well, so we left the cars to practice her PKs. Hannh, right footed, preferred to strike the ball with the inside of her foot to her right. She wasn't able to get a lot of power behind the shot though. Not that that is needed, but when nerves hit at crunch time, I prefer that the girls step up and strike the ball with some pace.
So we worked to change her PK shot to her left, and she proceeded to hit 5 or 6 in a row to the lower left corner. With really good pace. Nice. Hopefully we wouldn't need it.
My challenge to the girls pre-game was for them to get themselves warm-up well to try and get an early lead. For teams like NL who are somewhat intimidated by a team like ours, an early goal would be a huge advantage for us. How do I know they are intimidated by us? Because I know their coaches were calling around asking others how they could possibly beat us :)
We came out in our 3-5-2 formation that had seen us play some of our best soccer over the last 4 games.
We got on the score sheet 12 minutes in as Millie (LF) beat two defenders at the top of the penalty box to the left of goal, and fired a low, left foot shot far post. Good start.
We had chance after chance to find our second. Our wide mids were finding a ton of space weak side (when the ball was on the other side of the field) but we struggled to finish off long diagonals and crosses. We finally capitalized in the 30th when Blondie (LD) hit a long diagonal from about 40 out that bounced behind the NL defenders and Nash (RM) finished on the volley at the far post.
A few minutes later, Soph (LM) served a ball in that Millie (LF) did a good job of fighting for in the box, to the left of goal near the endline. She pulled the ball back to Jill (RF) who took her chance well for our third.
3-0 at half. We were playing OK. Just OK. Nothing brilliant, nothing flashy, but nothing bad either.
No changes at halftime, just encouragement to the girls to take some pride in their play, clean up our touches a bit, and look to make better decisions when in possession.
2 minutes into the half, we half cleared a ball to a NL player about 30 yards out from goal. She took a touch and hit a high, looping shot that sailed over Zazu and dropped under the crossbar, hitting the far post side netting. I could feel the slight momentum shift now as the NL team started to believe that they were in this. I could hear their coaches cheering and yelling out to their players that they now had the wind behind them and to keep shooting, as if that was the difference in the first half.
It took some time for the girls to settle in again after that goal. We lost a bit of composure on the ball and the game got ugly for a spell. However, 10 minutes later we regained our 3 goal cushion. Getch (Att Mid) received a pass near midfield, in front of our bench at the left side of the field. She cut inside and began dribbling to the center of the field, looking to spring Bidi (RM) with a diagonal. She cocked her leg back to hit the long ball, but a NL forward stuck her leg between the descending foot and the ball, and Getch kicked the ball and the leg at the same time. The girls went down and the ball squirted to Ripper (Def Mid) a few yards away. Ripper took a touch and played a through ball to Millie. Millie raced onto the ball past the NL lights defenders to goal, and I saw the AR's flag on the far side of the field go up. That's not offside I screamed - in my head. I began to shake my head but the whistle never came. I snuck a peek at Millie as she finished her breakaway at the near post, glanced to the lineman with her flag still raised, and then looked at the ref, who was heading back to midfield to look after the injured NL player who was still down. We might have just caught a break, I thought. It wasn't offside in the first place, and I'm not just saying that. I was right there and I know the rule. But that hasn't stopped refs from blowing the call in the past (I use "blowing" here as a double entendre).
The AP eventually put her flag down (put her flag down!), and the game went on. I would eventually overhear the AR talking to the ref after the game as we were walking off the field. "Bangu's 4th goal was offside. I had my flag up but you didn't see me. I would have made a bigger deal about it if the goal had mattered more." Hmm. Mattered more, huh? I always tell my players that a 2 goal lead is the most dangerous lead in soccer. The next goal is always huge. If the team that is behind gets it to make it a 1 goal game, it sets up the rest of the game as a tough contest. If the leading team get the next goal to go up by 3, that team makes things a bit easier for themselves from then on. It was 3-1 at this point of our game.
10 minutes later, we effectively put the game away with another goal off a cross, this time from Nash (RM) into the box for Bidi (LM) to finish with her second touch.
At the 28th minute, Millie (now at Att Mid), beat two players up the right flank and cut into goal. She spotted a wide open Gratz (LF) at the top of the 6 yard box, and Gratz 1-touched the ball home.
2 minutes later we tallied our final stike of the game, as Millie (Att Mid) once again (instrumental in 5 of our 6 goals on the day) was on the mark finishing a long ball over the top.
7-1 and rolling on into the final on Wednesday.
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Our U14 White team pulled out a come-from-behind victory, beating Wayzata 2-1 in double overtime. Our U12s upset the Tonka United 13s in PKs to win their semifinal, setting up the all Bangu U13 and U14 finals on Wednesday.